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Learn How To Quickly Build Self Confidence

TECHNIQUES THAT HELP BUILD SELF CONFIDENCE

  Most of us need to build self confidence in one aspect or the other, but a lot of people  ignore their issues or concentrate on the negative instead of the positive. Believe it or not a few people actually think they are perfect when in reality they have some real confidence issues! I’m sure we all know someone like that. Whether you are perfect or not, stress, worry, jobs, money problems, medical problems, relationship issues and life itself can take down your self confidence rather than build it quickly.

build self confidence

 Some of the possible benefits to learning how to build self confidence are that you make more money, you look and feel better physically, you could have a better relationships and you definitely feel more relaxed around other people.  

THERE ARE NO PERFECT PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD

 The most important aspect to having self confidence  is that you love yourself more, which is the key to being happy in a lot of life’s situations.

My first advice to anyone trying to gain self confidence is to learn to love yourself instead of being codependent on somebody else and expecting them  to boost your confidence everyday. 

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  You can’t be mentally co-dependent on other people and still be you ! You have to learn to love yourself,  you have to take care of yourself, and you have to be yourself in order to truly be happy. You can’t have a relationship and truly love somebody until you learn to truly love yourself first. The solution to loving yourself starts with getting to know yourself and learning to be proud of your life and the person that you are. NEVER BE SOMEONE THAT YOU ARE NOT JUST TO MAKE SOMEONE ELSE HAPPY! JUST BE YOU!!

IF YOU CAN’T BE YOURSELF AROUND CERTAIN PEOPLE THEN YOU DON’T NEED THEM IN YOUR LIFE!!

TALKING TO YOURSELF HELPS

 All of us have a conversation with ourselves in our heads all day whether we realize it or not.  Everything we see, hear, or touch causes an immediate dialog in our heads.  

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 If you lack confidence than the conversation in your head will likely be filled with negative thoughts that translate into a lack of self confidence. Many of them are likely to be very negative thoughts. These negative thoughts will drain energy from your mind and body and block the flow of positive messages. We all  need to hear the positive messages as much as possible since they  build self confidence  and raise our self esteem.  Take control of your feelings. Use your inner thoughts to talk to yourself in a positive manner, as often as you can. 

As an example, one of my regular sayings is “I’m the man,”. I never really mean it in a conceded way  but more like a joke in certain situations.  Being the man isn’t a bad thing though!!

   If you are “the man” or “the woman’ then be that and live it. If you see it in yourself than others probably see it also. There is nothing wrong with being someone that others look up to!

If you are a having a hard time and feeling like you’re not worthy of  others looking  up to you than  just repeat “I’m the man” or “woman” to yourself for a couple of minutes in the mirror.  It sounds cheesy, but saying it over and over does build self confidence. Try it, I dare you!!  I bet that if you go to the mirror right now and repeat something  positive like this out loud 30 times, it will be impossible to keep from smiling and may just change your day.  It’s amazing how quickly our outlook changes for the better when we have a positive way of thinking and realize our self worth. This will create a positive dialog in your head that will eventually replace the negative dialog completely.

DRESS FOR YOU

  Wear what you feel like you look good in.  You won’t feel good about yourself if you don’t  look your best. You will be amazed at just how much more confidence you will have by just  wearing the clothes that you look good in.  It just feels good when you are wearing your best clothes, when you are well groomed, and especially when you know that you look  good. Don’t stop there though! You need to build self confidence today not next week. Before you put on your nice clothes go get the car washed, groom that (beard) and  hair! Do something to  improve your life by  improving  your looks and it will definitely improve your self confidence!

 NEVER WASTE YOUR TIME WORRYING ABOUT WHAT YOU DON’T HAVE AND JUST BE THANKFUL FOR WHAT YOU DO HAVE!

Be thankful for the people that you  have in your life and don’t sit around being depressed or feeling bad about yourself because of the people that have left your life. People leave your life for a reason. You don’t know it now but their exit will probably benefit you in the long run. Just keep in your mind  that you’re the better person.

F.Y.I. Living your best life possible is the best revenge!

  Be proud of what you’ve accomplished and what you own but don’t whine about what you haven’t accomplished and just keep moving forward. There is no future in the past when the past is negative. Put it behind you and move on!

That doesn’t mean that you are supposed to forget the lessons that you learned from the past though! The past is what makes us the people we are today!

SHOW OFF YOUR SELF CONFIDENCE

 Do your best to treat everyone with kindness and to not stoop to someone’s level.  Stay calm and just smile. It will drive the other party crazy because you didn’t give them the fight that they were trying to start. You will  feel about yourself later when you realize that you used self restraint in a situation that could have otherwise been escalated to another level.

Walk with confidence! You might be amazed at how much more respect you get out of people when you’re dressed nice, you act nice and when you walk with confidence.

** PLEASE KEEP IN MIND THAT SHOWING OFF YOUR SELF CONFIDENCE DOES NOT INCLUDE BEING CONCEDED AND COCKY. NOBODY LIKES A CONCEDED BULLY! YOU WILL BECOME A JOKE TO OTHER PEOPLE.  LET PEOPLE NOTICE THE PERSON THAT YOU ARE INSTEAD OF FORCING IT ON THEM**

NEVER LET A DOCTOR OVER MEDICATE YOU

  Sometimes the medicine is worse than what the medical problem is. You could take Prozac or Xanax or other meds and those things could make you feel 10 times worse than you where feeling before.  Medicines work different with different people though. Some people can take certain medicines and they feel great and on top of the world. Other people can take them and all they do is sleep. Its a  horrible thing whenever you waste days and days and days sleeping because you took meds that were supposed to be something to make your day better not worse. 

 
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MY FINAL THOUGHTS 

These are just suggestions about the  things you can do to help yourself feel better about what  you’re depressed about AND LIFE IN GENERAL. I am no licensed psychologist or anything like that, I have just lived a lot of life and have a lot of good and bad experiences that have made me a better person.
Whatever  has got you down just think about this article and ask yourself,  “What can I do to build more self confidence? “
“Is what I’m going through now how how I should be living my life?”
Please remember that you only have one life and  you should be able to live it YOUR WAY!  Everyday you waste or throw away because of depression or worrying about things that you can’t change are wasted days that only put you one more day closer to death. I hate to put it that way but those are just the facts. Trust me, I know from experience.
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IN CLOSING

Please Read This Last Part Very Carefully: 
  I never believed in PTSD until it happened to me. If your life is at the end of a dead end road and you can’t find any way at all to be happy with yourself, if you can’t find anything positive everyday to wake up for, if you can’t find the good in anything and depression or PTSD has got you down to the point where you don’t even wanna live anymore please seek help! There are a lot of professionals in this world that will help you and let you get it off your chest. They can  give you  great advice and suggestions that might change your life. Don’t be embarrassed! There are some very talented and very educated professionals out there and their specialty is to help you get your life back on track and to help you feel better about living life. Just know that you’re not alone.  There are a lot of people that have gone through depression and a lot of up’s and downs in their lives.  Most of us that did not give up are living great lives today and you can be next!!  
 Life is not perfect! Bad things can happen in our life without any warning.  I know from experience how quickly your life can change and how it is to be depressed and to lay around upset about things that you can’t change! You can’t fix the past all you can do is fix the future! The next second-the next minute-the next hour-the next day and the next year is what you need to be concentrating on! 
If you are going through a hard time I really hope you can find some strength from reading this. It was written from experience and from the heart. Just know that if you don’t give up things do get better. I promise you that!!!!
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